August in Midcoast Maine

I wrote recently about my love for the non-optimized vacation, and though I didn’t call it out by name, my ultimate example is, of course, Maine: place-based love of my life for as long as I can remember. Though I listed many reasons to love the unfancy, repeated vacation, there was at least one I left out: the circular pleasure of watching your children enjoy the same things you loved as a child — especially the things that were particularly formative for you.

I had that experience this summer. (I have that experience every summer.) Though she got in lots of cousin and together time, June also snuck away, sometimes for hours at a time, to be alone. Usually her aloneness took the form of building fairy houses on the path leading down to the ocean: moss beds, bark roofs, and little acorn caps filled with blueberries. Mine more often took the form of writing poetry and lists about the upcoming school year on a particular rock on a particular path. Those quiet hours were part of turning me into the person I’d become, and I believe they’re doing the same for June. I’m grateful, and I have to think that someday, she will be, too.

For as much as things stay the same on a non-optimized vacation, there are always surprises in store. I’d love to share a few of the highlights and photos from this August in Maine, if you’d like to see!

Highlight No. 1: We got to travel up with our niece and nephew. Cousin Camp directly preceded our time in Maine, so the seven of us flew together from Raleigh to Boston and then made the drive up to the Midcoast from there. Though this might have been total chaos with a younger crew, it was smooth sailing with our 5-12 year olds and we all enjoyed working as a team. Jet Blue, with its individual seat-back screens and complimentary snacks, was a dream. Shep even got a special goodie box with treats, wings, and a note because we flew the day after his birthday!

(Don’t ask about the travel home — our flight was delayed for several hours, then canceled, leaving us to drive the 12 hours home from Boston unexpectedly. Yikes.)

Highlight No. 2: That sunset walk your first night on-island.

Highlight No. 3: I got to lead the evening church service one Sunday. I’ve done this a few times before; I consider it an honor and a privilege to speak to people I love about something that matters to me, even though preparing is somewhat stressful. Unsurprisingly, my message circled around technology :) (This newsletter was my jumping off point!) John and my sister played the piano to accompany the hymn singing, and June and Shep each played a prelude, so it was a real family affair.

Highlight No: 5: Adventuring and low-tech fun. Our cottage has about five analog phones from the 90’s in a drawer and Annie was obsessed. She operated a pet shop all week and each of us had hilarious conversations with her as we negotiated purchasing a cat, dog, horse, tiger, leopard, or seal to bring home.

Highlight No. 6: Enjoying each other’s company, whether we were working hard or playing hard — and even when we got caught on a barrier island in the rain, LOL.

Highlight No. 7: Enjoying a few new-to-me spots — hard to do when you’ve been vacationing somewhere your entire life! We boated to lunch at Linekin Bay and Cozy’s Dockside and both were delightful.

Highlight No. 8: Catching a real live lobster!! While searching for sea stars at low, low tide, Annie poked under a rock and found this guy. John was called over to pluck it from the water and though we did not bring it home to eat, we fed off the story for days and days.

Highlight No. 9: Beauty — everywhere, always.

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