8 December 2022
This is the fourth and final post in my working part-time as a mom series! If you need to catch up, start here: Part One: Background on my work history and some reasons (or not) for shortening my work weekPart Two: Why we chose me over my husband, why we chose going part-time over other solutions, and the financial impactPart Three: My role, negotiation, and how I structure my time at work In the first post, I shared a bit about my intentions for how I would spend my extra time outside of work. I wrote that I did not want to add more tasks to my plate, but that this change was largely about shifting the timing of tasks (from evenings/weekends to the workweek) versus adding new tasks or responsibilities. I also planned to prioritize digital tasks, because they are the most opaque and thus least likely to teach my children something, and tasks that are complicated with the ages of our children. Almost five months in, I would say I’ve hewed pretty well to these hopes. In looking back over what I’ve accomplished in this season of Fridays (which is easy, because you know I love me some good record keeping), a few things have surprised me: — I knew that grocery shopping would be a constant every week, but I thought cleaning out my email inbox would be, too. (Not getting to email zero, but just responding to anything that came in in the last few days that needed a response.) That has flat-out not happened at all. I also have yet to work on a blog post on a Friday (!), something I definitely thought would happen. — I have gone to Trader Joe’s WAY more than I expected, ha. Though I love TJ’s, it’s just far-enough out
21 November 2022
When I started writing this series, I was mainly focused on my reasons for transitioning to part-time work, which were personal, not professional. I was surprised, then (but delighted!), by your many wonderful questions about the work side of this transition, and so it was an easy decision to dive into this angle with an extra post. (We’ll look at how I’m spending my Fridays in the fourth and final post.) Let’s take your questions… Part One: Background on my work history and some reasons (or not) for shortening my work weekPart Two: Why we chose me over my husband to make this change, why we chose going part-time over other solutions, and the financial impactPart Four: What my days off have actually looked like (so far) Annie’s first visit to the Cultivate office earlier this year Was your decision influenced by Cultivate’s acquisition? Those of you who have followed closely may be aware that Cultivate was acquired in June of this year. My decision to go part-time was not in response to the acquisition, but it did put a point on the process. After I went back to work following my maternity leave in late fall 2021, the squeeze at home became more and more apparent. By the spring, I knew going part-time was the right decision, and I was eager to confirm my new schedule before the acquisition closed, knowing that negotiating with a brand-new boss could be far more challenging. The new owners agreed to my hours as part of my signing on to their company despite not having many part-time employees, for which I am grateful. How did you negotiate this arrangement with your boss? I remember so clearly the first time I broached the idea of reducing my hours – I was standing in my