I hope you all have a fabulous weekend! Just wanted to share a sneak peek of the curtains I finished last week for our bedroom. Thanks again to everyone who offered up fabric source suggestions — I ended up at Mill Outlet Village and it was wonderful! More soon…

P.S. Last weekend J and I went swimming here. It was awesome. If you’re looking for something fun to do, take a look at my suggestions!

How’s that for a post title?

As some of you know, J and I moved away from (most of) our family and friends after college. Even after about a year in our new locale, we don’t know too many people, so we’re mostly left to our own devices in terms of entertainment. And since we’re on a relatively limited budget, said entertainment generally needs to be free or inexpensive.

Even with those restrictions, we’ve become somewhat famous among those who love us for “doing fun things.” A few have asked me how we find things to do. Here’s my best advice.

Tip One: Watch the News
J watches the news every night (he really, really loves the weather, but usually tunes in for the whole shebang). News stations will often sponsor or have a presence at interesting community events, giving them incentive to promote them beforehand.

Success Story: Last August, the North Carolina Symphony played a concert in a downtown Raleigh park. A local news anchor was hosting, and talked it up on the nightly news, which is why we heard about it. We brought dinner and a picnic blanket, listened to fantastic music for about three hours, and bought dessert crepes to top off the night. Cost: FREE (two crepes were about $6)

Tip Two: Listen to the Radio
I find that the best stations to tune in to are NPR and the oldies station. You’re looking for the advertisements here, so don’t change the station once the music stops!

Success Story: The Koka Booth Amphitheater in Cary shows recently released feature films every Thursday in the summer. The Amphitheater itself is beautiful, and the surroundings are equally so. The back deck hosts a variety of independent vendors, and you’re also welcome to bring your own food and drink. Heard about this while driving home on NPR! Cost: $6 for two tickets

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Tip Three: Read the NY Times Travel Section
They have entries for an astonishing array of locales across the US (and beyond!), and they always unearth some fun choices. Check the main page out here.

Success Story: The nearby NC Museum of Art has an awesome sculpture garden. We first read about it here, and have since walked and biked its path many times, including with out-of-town visitors. Cost: FREE

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Tip Four: Read Grace’s Guides
I’ve talked about this a bit here, but Design*Sponge has amassed an excellent collection of City Guides, similar to the Times’ write-ups but with a longer list of options and more of an indie-crafty bent. Click here to see if there’s one for your area!

Success Story: The Durham guide lists Daisy Cakes as a great place to stop for a snack, and it didn’t disappoint. J and I stopped by the adorable vintage airstream trailer for a cupcake and the house specialty, the pop’t-art (homemade preserves in a flaky crust, served warm), after visiting the Durham Farmer’s Market down the street. Cost: $5.50

Tip Five: Use Your Resources
This could mean a variety of things, but for us, it primarily means the universities: Duke, UNC, and NC State are all within a half hour’s drive. About four times a year I make a point to stop by each school’s website (specifically, their calendar) to see what lectures, performances, or events might be on tap. I’d also recommend checking out your town or region’s Parks & Rec publication, for notice of festivals (which are often free) and classes (which are often inexpensive), as well as your local library.

Success Story: One of the best things we’ve done in NC thus far was attend the Duke Chorale’s annual Christmas concert. The singing was wonderful, every pew in the breathtaking Duke Chapel was filled, and it really put us in the Christmas spirit (and y’all know I love Christmas). Cost: a can of food each for the local food bank. We also found out about and attended a Sweet Honey in the Rock concert in the Duke Gardens via the web calendar. Cost: FREE, pictured above).

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Tip Six: Talk to the Locals
Fairly obvious, but worth mentioning. Once you start to meet people who’ve lived in the area, you can of course pick their brains about little-known landmarks and leisure activities, but I’d also suggest some innocent eavesdropping. (What?! You haven’t done this in, say, a coffee shop?)

Success Story: We may have to drive 40 minutes, but we’ve found an NC ice cream place that rivals our beloved Buttonwoods back home in Connecticut (okay, not quite). Fresh churned from cows that graze in the front yard. One of my company’s interns tipped me off to this one. Cost: about $6 for two cones

Tip Seven: Be Observant
Again, I know this is fairly obvious, but stick with me here, because this is the single best tip I’ve got. Wherever J and I are, we keep our eyes peeled. And then we remember to follow up once we’re back home.

Success Story: What do we keep our eyes peeled for? We never know, but it’s usually something good. We discovered Backwoods OK while on an unrelated hike, the Western Wake Farmer’s Market while driving home from the library, and the best family farm (with the most delicious pick-your-own strawberries) because we weren’t afraid to follow a sign onto a side road on the way home from the grocery store. Be open to adventure (and keep a pad with you to jot down notes!) and you’ll never be bored.

So tell me — what are your best tips for “doing fun things”? I’d love to hear!

{All photos by moi or J unless otherwise noted}

First, my apologies for the mega post. But as I think you’ll see, the Blue Ridge Parkway* we traveled along last weekend was, for the most part, stunningly beautiful. Of course, it didn’t start out that way…

In fact, it started out a lot more like this:

But let’s back up a bit. On Friday night we ate dinner at the New York Times recommended Early Girl Eatery, in downtown Asheville. It was delicious, and the first time I’ve really noticed a difference between fresh, organic, local veggies and your standard supermarket fare.

The next morning was drippy and cloudy. This was our view for most of the day:

Nevertheless I was rocking an awesome outfit…

and we decided to brave the elements on two separate occasions: once to journey into a mountain laurel forest…

and the second time to explore a set of waterfalls just off the Parkway (Graveyard Fields, milepost 418).

That’s about when it really started to rain, of course, so we called it quits for the day. Luckily the next morning dawned bright and sunny, and we headed back out to the Parkway. We began by driving to the top of Mount Mitchell, the highest point east of the Mississippi.

It was quite windy, which made for some interesting photo ops.

Most of the time we just tried to soak in the beauty all around us.

(Linville Falls, milepost 317)

It wasn’t too difficult.

*For those of you who don’t know, the Blue Ridge Parkway is a 469 mile scenic highway that travels along the crests of the southern Appalachians and links Shenandoah National Park in Virginia to the Great Smoky Mountains National Park in North Carolina.

The Raleigh Flea Market was one of the best I’ve ever been to. It was mostly outside (and so smelled delightfully fresh, not musty and stale like some indoor markets); huge but not so overwhemingly huge that it was paralyzing; and had a great mix of cheaper knick-knacks, fine antiques, impressive crafts, and delicious looking produce. My favorite stall was the crazy wagon of rusted old metal {top few photos}.

Check back soon to see what I came home with!