We are settling into a nice little summer rhythm over here. The kids get up when they’d like, make their own breakfast, consult the day’s plan, then play outside for (at least) an hour. They come inside and are usually happy to scamper upstairs and work on something together: crafting a tiny lemonade stand for Mouse Town, playing school, constructing a fort, building with LEGOs, messing around in the kitchen. Around noon John and I break from work and we eat lunch together, then I read a chapter or two from our current readaloud. We’ll take a zip around the block if it’s not too hot.
After lunch it’s quiet time for an hour and a half in their rooms (they usually read or listen to the Yoto, while Shep sometimes draws or plays with LEGOs and June sometimes plays with her American Girl). Once they’re released, June practices piano and they do any clean-up that needs doing, then they can watch a show or movie for 30 minutes to an hour as I finish out my work day.
After that there’s time for a bit more play before the kids change into their suits and I pack dinner into our cooler. We eat in shifts poolside for two hours or so while the kids cycle through swim team practice, then it’s back home for quick showers and another chapter or two of our readaloud before a little solo reading in bed.
Of course, not every day proceeds exactly like this — or as smoothly as this short litany makes it sound (especially now that, as of yesterday, Annie’s co-op has ended and she’s in the mix at home). But these are good days, and I’m grateful for them.
More of this in July!
(Most of) the completed watercolor landscape collection before I shipped it off!
On my calendar: — Our town’s Independence Day bike parade! We haven’t been home for the Fourth of July in a few years and this is one thing I’m looking forward to about staying put. The kids have been in a flurry crafting decorations for their wheels the last few days. — Annie, John, and Shep’s birthdays! Lots of number balloons, special dinners, and celebrations over here. — A planning meeting for our Acadia trip! The countdown is on.
What I’m loving right now: — For those following my salad plate saga, I finally settled on these pretty green ones! They weren’t cheap, but then again neither was our original wedding china – and I hope to get 10+ years of delightful daily use out of this pattern, too. (The size is a little smaller than our old salad plates, but they still work well for plating dinner!) — Thanks to a generous birthday gift card from my in-laws, I recently made my first-ever purchase from Lululemon! After ordering a tank + skirt combo that was wayyyy too small, I ventured to the mall to find a replacement. I settled on this tennis skirt and this top in the color lavender frost. I’m obsessed and have worn this combo at least once a week ever since. The mesh and volume of the skirt is really unique and fun, and the top is so lightweight – perfect for summer humidity. I’m so glad I went into the store to try things on, because I don’t think I ever would have chosen this combo from the website! — Good news and bad news: Beauty Counter is back (now known simply as Counter), but they are only selling three makeup products at the moment. One is my beloved Skin Twin foundation (hooray!) but my equally-beloved concealer seems to have been discontinued (argh!). I’m scraping the bottom of my last tube so must begin the search for a replacement…
As a reminder, you can find allll the things I’ve loved over the last few years neatly organized right here!
What you’re loving right now:
This is where I highlight a few items here that have been popular in the last month with fellow readers, based on my analytics. Here’s hoping this will help you find something you’ll love!
— This preschool version of a paint-by-sticker book. Our family has long loved the kid version, but this simpler version was perfect for Annie (age 3). She carefully completed every page on our HHI road trip; we’ll definitely be stocking up for summer travel. (There are so many to choose from!) — Our favorite summer swim goggles for kids. No hair pulling (praise!). — The underbed boxes we use to store our kids’ artwork and school memorabilia. More about that system here! — The Shibumi shade, the pride of North Carolina. So lightweight, so easy to set up – it makes beach days a breeze. — Annie’s lavender tie-dye pool sandals. She and June have matching pairs!
What I read in June: — World Without End | Thus completes my re-read of the first three books in Ken Follett’s sweeping Kingsbridge series! (I’m counting “first three” as prologue + book 1 + book 2.) If you love a historical fiction novel that keeps you on the edge of your seat, this one’s for you. And World Without End was again confirmed as my favorite in the series! — Seabiscuit | Though I am so late to the party with this book (it was published in 2002!), I am so glad I finally read it! Seabiscuit’s underdog story is compelling enough on its own, but Laura Hillenbrand’s writing takes it to the next level – even throwaway sentences feel so carefully crafted. This is also a near perfect read-alike for one of my favorites from last year, The Boys in the Boat, so if you enjoyed that one, this should be your next pick!
Revisiting my June goals: Film June in June End the school year and begin summer well Clear out the art bin Paint three more watercolor postcards and send them off for the auction Plan for Annie’s July birthday Complete June’s baby book Make a PCP appointment (Not only did I make an appointment, I had an appointment!! I thought it might take weeks or months to be seen. I really liked my provider but was dismayed by some of the bloodwork results – and have a few changes brewing as a result.) Order supplies for sleepaway camp Host the reunion + have fun! (This weekend surpassed my expectations in the sweetest way. So, so grateful. More to come!)
July goals: — Visit a Maine gallery and buy an original piece of artwork (if something strikes my fancy!) — Tweak the TCF course outline — Review the TCF course outline with John — Clean out pantry — Complete June’s baby book — Plan Annie + Shep’s joint birthday excursion — Prep for and enjoy our Maine/Acadia trip — Edit June in June
In terms of daily goals, I’m continuing to memorize the Gettysburg Address (I have 5 of the 10 sentences down!) and work through my phone screenshots. I’m also adding a morning walk before the kids get up and – surprise! – diving into The Bible Recap’s daily reading plan once again! I loved doing it last year and have missed it ever since, so back I go. I don’t know if I’ll finish it by the end of the year or just get halfway through, but am excited either way.
Let’s see… any Acadia advice? Are you a longtime Lulu fan? Happy to see Counter back? Are you also starting a goal on an “off” time? I’d love to hear whatever’s on your mind as we move into the second half of the year!
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June 2025 goals
Sweet summer! We’re in our last week of school but it feels like it’s already in full swing in some ways. All school-year extracurriculars are over, we have our summer planning TTT on Thursday (excited to fill these out!), we’ve printed out summer reading challenges, and our first swim meet is tonight – whee! Here’s what else we have planned this month…
Wrapping paper courtesy of Annie + a watercolor penguin card by yours truly = a sweet Father’s Day package
On my calendar: — Swim meets! Our neighborhood swim season has begun and it’s a fun vibe to spend many of our evenings at the pool surrounded by friends and neighbors. Since practice runs from 6-7:45pm across all three kids, we’ve packed sandwiches for dinner most nights alongside this 8-compartment bento box filled with fruit, veggies, pickles, chips, and cookies. — Father’s Day! I’m once again organizing a pastry bar from a local favorite cafe for the men at our church, and celebrating my own wonderful husband, Dad, and father-in-law. — Our 20th high school reunion! We fly to Connecticut later this month and can’t wait to squeeze our friends and revisit some of our favorite haunts on the shoreline.
What I’m loving right now: — I picked up The Detective Dog from the library on a whim and it is a new family favorite picture book! The rhyme scheme is excellent (thank you, Julia Donaldson!) and the illustrations are equally charming. — I am late to the party but I recently made my first (and then second) purchase from Bookshop.org! If you, too, are late, their goal is to give readers the convenience of online shopping while supporting independent bookstores at the same time. You get to choose the local bookstore you’d like to support and they’ll earn 30% of the purchase price (most of the profit) when you designate them in your account. (I’m currently supporting Fable, a new bookstore near me that’s slated to open soon!) You do pay for shipping, which annoys me as much as the next person, but I’m trying to reacclimatize myself to paying for a service that does, indeed, cost money.) — My and Annie’s habit for the last few weeks has been to sing along to “Day for Singing” by Jess Ray on our way to school each morning. It does a beautiful job of helping me set a hopeful, energetic tone for the day ahead.
As a reminder, you can find allll the things I’ve loved over the last few years neatly organized right here!
What you’re loving right now:
This is where I highlight a few items here that have been popular in the last month with fellow readers, based on my analytics. Here’s hoping this will help you find something you’ll love!
— This preschool version of a paint-by-sticker book. Our family has long loved the kid version, but this simpler version was perfect for Annie (age 3). She carefully completed every page on our HHI road trip; we’ll definitely be stocking up for summer travel. (There are so many to choose from!) — Our favorite summer swim goggles for kids. No hair pulling (praise!). — The underbed boxes we use to store our kids’ artwork and school memorabilia. More about that system here! — The Shibumi shade, the pride of North Carolina. So lightweight, so easy to set up – it makes beach days a breeze. — Annie’s lavender tie-dye pool sandals. She and June have matching pairs!
What I read in May: — A Prayer for Owen Meany | I specifically chose this book for this month’s slot because I remember one of my high school best friends (who I will see in a few weeks!) claiming this as his favorite book back when we were in English 12 together. That has stuck with me for the past 20 years, and now having read it, I’m even more eager to discuss it with him. More astute reviewers have called it among the very best American novels of our time, a work of genius, a heartbreaking masterpiece of a novel, but I cringe to say I wasn’t overly impressed? At 700 pages it felt bloated to me, especially on the heels of the similar but much more lithe Gilead. I kept wanting to skip ahead; when several threads came together in the final pages, it felt more like a relief than rewarding. The anti-war, anti-American commentary also felt heavy-handed. All that being said, I do think it’s a book — and cast of characters — that will stick with me. We shall see what my friend has to say :) — The Power of Moments | This was a quick read exploring why certain brief experiences can jolt us and elevate us and change us—and how we can learn to create such extraordinary moments in our life and work. The authors didn’t include many parenting applications in the book but it seems to me there are a ton; I’m planning to write a TCF newsletter inspired by it in the future. — Loved and Missed | I picked up this book after an enthusiastic review by Jenny Rosenstrach, and it didn’t disappoint. Ruth, the dignified narrator, swivels between trying to love and save her daughter Eleanor, a drug addict living in squalor, and trying to love and save Eleanor’s daughter Lily, whom Ruth is raising as her own. This book is slim and packs a punch, filled with dialogue that achingly brings you right into each fraught relationship. It is both brutally sad and magnificently triumphant. I’m glad I moved it to the top of my queue.
Revisiting my May goals: Hire a bathroom contractor now that all estimates are in (We selected a contractor only to get the news that they aren’t taking new projects until they hire a new trim carpenter! Argh! We aren’t in any rush so are hoping they’ll find one soon.) Complete three more watercolor landscape postcards (Yes! Four, actually!) Edit Annie in April (Underway!) Finalize, print, and send itineraries for our reunion weekend Make reservations for our reunion weekend (Still stuck on one dinner! My project for tomorrow!) Refresh our plan for summer days at home Plan for and lead dance class; wrap up my third grade book club
June goals: — Film June in June — End the school year and begin summer well — Clear out the art bin — Paint three more watercolor postcards and send them off for the auction — Plan for Annie’s July birthday (it will sneak up with travel!) — Complete June’s baby book — Make a PCP appointment. I don’t even really care who it’s with at this point, I’m just going to make one. — Order supplies for sleepaway camp — Host the reunion + have fun!
I’m also working on memorizing the Gettysburg Address. June is keeping me accountable, and my main tactic is to set a reminder on my phone and read it aloud once a day. Super simple!
To close, I would love to hear one thing you’re doing to prepare well for summer! No matter what season of life you’re in – whether you have kids or not, a job that shifts or not – a new season on the calendar always feels like an opportunity to be kind to our future selves :) It could be putting books on hold at the library, deciding on a lunch you can repeat, planning now for a trip, or resetting toy storage… the smallest things can make a big difference! Please share in the comments, if you’d like.
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Our teacher graduation book signing tradition
Our children have been gifted with incredible teachers at every level of education. From infant daycare, to Montessori preschool, to public elementary school, we have found wise, talented teachers happy to partner with us in educating our kids. Each has shaped their lives in ways that are already visible, but whose full impact we might not know for years. Grateful, grateful, grateful.
Naturally, I wanted to find a way to keep these teachers close over the years, and that’s how we found our way to the graduation book tradition. You’re probably already familiar with it – parents choose a picture book and ask their children’s teachers to write a note in it each year, kind of like a yearbook. As a words gal, I love the idea of capturing memories and hopes for the future from these dear ones. June’s book now has several years of notes penned inside, and Shep’s has been broken in by his beloved preschool director. They’re both already on the short list of items I’d save in a fire.
While this tradition isn’t a new idea, it’s become a beloved one in our family, and so I thought I’d share a bit about it today!
How to organize a teacher picture book signing tradition
Though this tradition requires a bit of sustained effort over many years (your child’s entire K-12 education!), it’s really an easy lift: once you’ve chosen a book (see below!), you simply have to produce it at the right time each year for the teacher to sign – and, perhaps more challenging, keep it safe all the months in between. (We keep ours in our children’s memory boxes.)
Here’s the email I send to our kids’ teachers in late May:
Hi [teacher name]!
I hope you’re enjoying these last few days with your students! I will be sending in a picture book soon that I’m hoping you (and [assistant’s name], if she’d like!) would be willing to sign for our girl! I’m sure you’re very familiar with the tradition, but the idea is that you’d both choose any page and write her an encouraging note (no need to return it the same day – anytime before the end of the year!). We’ll then pass the book on to her teachers next year and beyond. (We do plan to let her read it along the way instead of waiting until graduation!)
She has enjoyed being with you both so, so much this year, and I know it will mean the world! Thank you in advance!!
Emily
Once receiving confirmation, I tuck the book in her backpack inside a manilla envelope. We keep it close until the end of the school year, then let the kids read the notes at our end-of-school-year/beginning-of-summer celebration. (I know some parents keep the tradition a secret until senior year, but I think it’s meaningful to be buoyed by these special teacher’s words along the way!)
14 Great Graduation Book Ideas
When looking for a graduation picture book, the key is to combine a meaningful message with illustrations that leave enough white space for writing notes. This is surprisingly tricky to find! Here are the two books we’ve used for our older kids, and a few others that are worth a look:
— The World Needs Who You Were Made to Be by Joanna Gaines | This is June’s book! I wouldn’t say it’s the absolute best story, but it’s sweet, the illustrations are lovely, and it has plenty of room for writing.
— What Do You Do With an Idea? by Kobi Yamada | Shep’s book! The black-and-white illustrations work wonderfully for adding colorfully-penned notes, and the message is timeless.
— Miss Rumphius | In terms of messaging, this would be my hands-down choice – but alas, I didn’t think it had enough room for notes. Worth considering, though!
— Oh the Places You’ll Go by Dr. Seuss | A classic! The sales of this one must be bananas in May.
— A World Wonder by Laura Wifler | Though I haven’t chosen a book yet for Annie, this is on my short list! We love this story of a girl with big dreams on a journey to discover what makes life truly meaningful.
— Journey by Aaron Becker | This is a visually-stunning wordless picture book – perfect for adding your own words of wisdom over the years!
— The Wonderful Things You Will Be by Emily Martin | This seems to be a very popular option for graduation book gifts. I don’t care for her illustration style as much as some of these others, but this is a great pick with plenty of white space on the page.
— All the World by Liz Garton Scanlon | This simple, profound Caldecott Honor book follows a circle of family and friends over the course of a day. The breathy, windswept illustrations leave plenty of margin for notes!
— Because by Mo Williams | We have and love this picture book about the chain reaction one decision can make, which begins and ends (and begins?) with a life-changing musical performance. Check it out in person, though – the (beautiful!) illustrations take up a lot of the space on each page.
— The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson | The vibrant illustrations in this one are a marvel, but I don’t know that they leave quite enough room on the page for notes! Either way, the message is lovely and this is a book my kids enjoyed reading.
— Wherever You Go by Pat Zietlow Miller | This one seems a bit calculated to be an alternative to the almost-trite Oh the Places You’ll Go, but I think it succeeds! The verse is easy, the illustrations are whimsical and packed with detail, and it has plenty of “off you go into the world!” verve.
— The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein | Sob. This unforgettable story of love and empathy is a timeless pick. Shel’s spare, black-and-white illustrations leave plenty of room for colorful penned notes.
— Why Not?by Kobi Yamada | Honestly, this one seems designed to be used as a graduation book rather than as an actual picture book for preschoolers, so let’s give it its moment! :) The beautiful illustrations and encouraging text are an invitation to embrace big possibilities.
— The Three Questions by Jon J. Muth | “When is the best time to do things? Who is the most important one? What is the right thing to do?” These questions are asked and answered in this picture book based on a fable by Leo Tolstoy. Simple and direct text paired with whimsical watercolors make for a satisfying package.
I’d love to hear: does your family do the graduation book tradition? If so, what books do you use? I’d love to hear!
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May 2025 goals
In March, I mentioned a trio of unwelcome disruptions to our family’s typically-stable life. Interestingly, all three arenas have experienced movement of some sort just one week into May. Not resolution, necessarily, not total healing, but movement — and as my physical therapist sisters like to say, motion is lotion. Sometimes, you just need to move forward, even if you’re not sure if it’s the right step, even if you’re sure it’s not a forever step.
One tiny example? I now find myself an interim movement and music instructor :) After abruptly saying goodbye to our preschool (the preschool we’ve had children enrolled at for 8.5 years, sob), Annie just completed her first week at a short-term teacher-led and parent-organized co-op. We’re all chipping in as we can, and for our family, that mostly means bringing the snacks and leading parachute chaos every other Wednesday.
Here’s what else we have on deck for May!
The garden on April 20th and the garden yesterday!
On my calendar: — Teacher Appreciation Week! We’re going with gift cards for a favorite shop in our cute downtown for our kids’ primary teachers, local ice cream shop gift cards for secondary teachers, and small Target gift cards for specials teachers. And hand-painted cards for all, inspired by Jodi’s ideas! — Mother’s Day! I’m organizing something special for the ladies at our church and celebrating my own wonderful mom and mother-in-law. — A weekend trip to Wilmington! The last time John and I visited I was a few weeks pregnant with June, so things will be a bit different this time around. The battleship, the beach, and some fun restaurants (here, here) are on our itinerary — recap to come in due time :)
What I’m loving right now: — Let’s make this the John edition! I recently rounded up a bunch of his favorites here (maybe helpful for early Father’s Day shopping?) but wanted to highlight a few, starting with this soft, sunwashed sweatshirt. He has it in red but I’ve hinted I’d like the periwinkle in my own closet. — John has suffered from back problems off and on over the last few years, and two things have recently helped. One is switching to a standing desk. We have it in the prettiest green and he now stands for basically his entire workday (!). — The other thing that’s helped is an online healthy back course. Y’all know John loves his Instagram ads, and this was another success story! We’re big believers in traditional physical therapy, but it can feel hard to get there a few times a week with work and kids. Doing these exercises faithfully each day for 21 days really helped him get back in a good place without leaving home.
As a reminder, you can find allll the things I’ve loved over the last few years neatly organized right here!
What you’re loving right now:
This is where I highlight a few items here that have been popular in the last month with fellow readers, based on my analytics. Here’s hoping this will help you find something you’ll love!
What I read in April: — Table for Two | While I loved The Lincoln Highway, this collection of short stories might just be my favorite Amor Towles creation yet. The writing is so sharp, the characters so deftly sketched, the endings so satisfying. Plus, I don’t know, there’s just something that feels posh about reading a short story collection?! Ha! Perfect bite-sized treats to read before bed. Highly recommend! — Wedding People | This was a blockbuster hit with the gals of Articles Club (and I was 705 on the library hold list at one point!), but I might actually have quit it early if it hadn’t been the one book I packed with me on my weeklong work trip. (There’s quite a bit of language in it, which I generally don’t care for.) Cornered into continuing, I found myself reading too long into the night by the time I got to the halfway point, eager to see where the characters and plot would land. I was happy with the ending, and chuckled aloud several times, so take all of that for what you will :)
Revisiting myApril goals: Film Annie in April Take Rosalie’s watercolor landscape class Complete two more watercolor postcards Record the first TCF audio AMA with John (Done! And it’s live!) Review the TCF course outline with John Finalize and print itineraries for our reunion weekend Choose a new Psalm and begin memorizing it as a family (Thanks to Abby’s suggestion, we are working on Psalm 100!)
May goals: — Hire a bathroom contractor now that all estimates are in — Complete three more watercolor landscape postcards — Edit Annie in April — Finalize, print, and send itineraries for our reunion weekend — Make reservations for our reunion weekend — Refresh our plan for summer days at home — Plan for and lead dance class; wrap up my third grade book club
