August 2024 goals
Our kids don’t go back to school until the end of the month (September, actually, for Shep), so even as I’m looking ahead to back-to-school rhythms and routines, we’re still very much in the thick of summer over here. Doctor’s appointments and after-dinner pool visits, reseting chore charts and staying up late to watch the Olympics, shopping for school supplies and all-you-can-eat popsicles from the freezer — two seasons live side-by-side in August, and I’m savoring them both.
If you, too, are straddling seasons, I pulled up a few posts that might be of help for us both:
Our favorite family read alouds
My takeaways from Habits of the Household
Simplifying kids’ artwork
Our kids after-school jobs
And my series on Christians in public school (start here)
And now onto the goals…
On my calendar:
— An ice cream and game night with the ladies at our church
— An afternoon shadowing our vet for June. Our vet invited her to tag along for a few hours at our cat’s last appointment, and she’s very excited to take her up on the offer!
— Shep’s first day of kindergarten!!
What I’m loving right now:
— This feels like it needs to be an annual summertime reminder: if you’re smaller-chested, I CANNOT recommend these enough. I had seen them recommended for years but never took the plunge because they seemed vaguely complicated, but nothing could be farther from the truth. They’ve made wearing sleeveless and skinny-strap dresses an absolute breeze and are FAR better than a strapless bra, IMHO! Go for it!!
— This folding chair was one of John’s birthday gifts. It is FAR smaller than the folding camping chairs we’re used to taking to soccer games — the carry bag is only about a foot long — and it’s a little more inclined than them, too. But a great, lightweight option!
— This is admittedly early, but I just bought these sweet bunny bookends for Annie for Christmas. She’s in the enviable/unfortunate third-child position of having everything she needs and parents who are trying to avoid toy clutter, which makes gift giving challenging. She loves bunnies, though, and I think she’ll get a kick out of having this little pair for her room!
As a reminder, you can find allll the things I’ve loved over the last few years neatly organized right here!
What you’re loving right now:
This is where I highlight a few items here that have been popular in the last month with fellow readers, based on my analytics. Here’s hoping this will help you find something you’ll love!
— The bracelet bead kit ($8!!) we used at the kindergarten breakfast and for slow afternoons
— The card game we play obsessively with our siblings and in-laws
— The cutest paper cups for back to school dinners
— The Shibumi shade, an NC beach staple that’s SO easy to tote and set up
— The wooden card holder that makes games so much easier with little ones
Last month on The Connected Family:
— My favorite takeaways from How to Know a Person | Written for citizens, it has a lot to offer parents, too
— Why we prefer communal screens to tablets | 7 quick reasons that might help your decision making
— Our quest for an “away for the day” middle school | Exactly what I emailed our principal, and her response
What I read in July:
— Killers of a Certain Age | Even though it was on my reading list for the year, this was a DNF for me. I didn’t love the characters or the humor after a few chapters, and I’ve learned that means it’s time to move on to the next book on my stack.
— The Vanderbeekers Ever After | The seventh and final installment of this middle grade series that has my heart! I laughed, I cried, I’m even more firmly convinced that everyone should read it.
— Die With Zero | I’m teetering on the edge of writing a post about this one! Lots of thoughts! In short: this book is written for a niche (wealthy) audience. I generally agree with the thrust of his argument, but felt like he was oversimplifying some points — and also not addressing some obvious objections I had) — and yet still ended up with a book that could easily have been half as long.
My reading list for 2024! I’m 12 / 24 so far.
Revisiting my July goals:
Complete 40 hours of deep work (26, and I actually feel pretty good about this considering how broken up my last week of the month was with cousins here!)Edit June in June (Done! Volume 9 in the books!)Successfully send June to sleepaway camp (She loved it! More on TCF next week.)
Book our Acadia accommodations for next summer (We made some progress here! We revisited and discussed options, and chose a week, but haven’t pulled the trigger yet.)
Write one module of the TCF course (I mean, in retrospect, this was definitely not going to happen…)
Read chapters 13 and 14 of Outlive (Traveling and other disruptions meant fewer evening walks and fewer chances to listen!)
Finish the 2015-2019 photo album (Again, no.)
As a reminder, many of these are drawn from my 2024 goals!
August goals:
— Finalize plans for our anniversary trip to Asheville
— Complete 40 hours of deep work
— Go through the kids’ clothes in advance of my two favorite consignment sales (+ sort and tag what I’m selling)
— Book our Acadia accommodations for next summer
— Reset June’s job chart for the new school year and make one for Shep (I think I’m almost ready to write a post about our system!)
— Tackle the upstairs closet, one of the areas from last year that needs a refresh
— Print photos for our new mantel frames (this is the kind of thing that could linger for months if I don’t put it in my PowerSheets)
— Frame June’s camp photo
— Submit everyone’s passport applications
Are your kids already back at school, or do you have a ways to go still? Or maybe you’re in year-round school, or just relishing a fresh start yourself! I’d love to hear.
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If you end up planning to do any hiking with the kids while in Acadia, I would highly recommend Jordan Pond Path trail. It’s about 3 miles total but I think the kids would love it. Lots of beautiful scenery and fun terrain (part of the trail is on wooden boards!). It was one of our favorites when we went to Acadia a few years ago! It also seemed to be a bit less crowded than other areas of Acadia (the crowds were the worst part of Acadia for me, it was insane the entire time we were there!).
Speaking as someone who really tries to avoid crowds when traveling, this makes me nervous! But thank you for this tip!! Wooden boards sounds right up the kids’ alley :)
You may already know this but go ahead and schedule your passport appointment now if you hope to get it in August. We had more luck at the post office in Fuquay than getting an appointment in Apex and I think you have to bring all three kiddos. The process took me twice as long as I expected it to with getting all of the paperwork arranged and then quadruple checking that I had it all before we went to the Post Office. :-)
Oh boy!! Will do!
I’d love to hear your thoughts on Die with Zero! I was also very intrigued at his premise and listened to a few podcast episodes with him as the guest. I agreed with some thoughts: mostly about spending your money on memories vs. things, but questioned some of the others like spending it all in your ‘prime’ years when you can still enjoy it. I can see pros and cons to that!
I kid you not: just this past weekend, as I contemplated my oldest starting kindergarten and considered our family routines and rhythms, I thought to myself, “I wish there was an em for marvelous blog post on how their family does chores and chore charts.” I will eagerly anticipate your post about your system, whenever you feel ready to write it! :)
HA! Glad to help!!
In the UK school system summer holidays kick off in July and August is the real summer month, so we are in the thick of summer camps, Olympic watching and family holidays. I have adjusted my hours so I can pick the children up from camp and hang out with them afterwards, and I am absolutely loving this season. Highlights include a family hiking trip to the Dolomites in Italy, fruit picking at our local PYO, park trips with friends and introducing the kids to the Olympics.
Sounds like bliss!
Hi Em! I know we don’t actually know each other but I have been reading your blog for over a decade and commenting often enough that I’m sure you’ve seen my name pop up here and there. I am so delighted to tell you that our prayers have finally been answered and we adopted our daughter 3 years after we started the process. So now we have a newborn and a 7 year old, which is an interesting age gap with pros and cons like everything in life.
Do you have any posts or advice on traveling with babies? We didn’t travel with my 7 year old until he was 1.5 but I don’t want to not travel at all for a year+, but not sure how to manage it, haha.
Victoria – I don’t know you, but had to say congrats about your adoption! Our family has been blessed by adoption, too, so I understand the joy after a long wait! I will say a prayer for your family that all goes smoothly and blessings continue to follow. Congrats again!!! :)
Thank you so much Christine!
Victoria!!!! This is the sweetest update and I know it has been a very long time coming! I am THRILLED for your family – thank you, thank you for letting me know! I’ll be praying for you all in this transition. And yes! Here’s a post about traveling with a baby :) https://emformarvelous.com/7-tips-for-road-tripping-with-an-infant/
School here in Georgia has already started! Always feels so early! But they get out early, too, I guess…
I‘ve read bits and pieces of a few Vanderbeeker books (as Kathleen was reading them), but I‘m just now reading the first one from start to finish and I get the excitement! I love how the author doesn’t shy away from tough topics, and in such a kind and wholesome way. We‘re big fans!
Enjoy the rest of summer break! I loved reading about June‘s camp experience! So glad it was great for everyone :)
This makes me so happy, friend! The sweetest series!
I absolutely love reading your monthly goals, Em. Always so intentional and I love catching up from the previous month. Thank you for sharing so consistently, and inspiring me to keep sharing mine too x